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What is Real Love?

misgodsbest — Wed, 05 May 2010 06:42:26 +0000

Real love is your interests in the total personality of the one you love.

It should be tested so that we will know if it is real love.

Love is not the interest in the physical body of the person you love. A pretty face and a lovely figure are powerful attractions, but looks can be deceiving.

Real love always starts slow. You have to know the person well before you can truly in love with her. It takes time lots of time to really know someone.

Real love should come from sharing common interests and values. If your feelings for each other are warm and tender, instead of hot and cold, love grows slowly but the roots grow deep.

Real love should bring out your best qualities and make you a better person.

Real love should result in your parents and most of your friend’s approval. To have God’s blessing on your marriage, it is very important that you have the approval of both parents.

If your parents and many of your friends will not approve of the relationship, think wise or go on with your foolishness. It should be foolish if you will not listen to them

Real love should not strain/ destroy your relationship with your family and friends.

But if it is not real love, your most important person in the world is your love one.

Real love needs sharing of time and space. There must be a test of time and a test of space.

Real love will still have disagreements sometimes, but because they understand each other and love each other, they know how to solve the disagreements. It is better to discuss differences openly and frankly.

Real love is a relationship where both of you enjoy doing things together.

Real love is unselfish. You want to do all you can to bring happiness to the other person. Your over all attitudes are that of giving to the relationship and not that of getting what you can out of it.

Real love accepts the person as they are.

Love is acceptance

Real love is refined by balance exposure to both positive and negative experience together.

TO MY CHILD

misgodsbest — Wed, 05 May 2010 01:24:57 +0000

Just for this morning, I am going to
smile when I see your face and laugh
when I feel like crying.
Just for this morning, I will let you
choose what you want to wear,
and smile and say how perfect it is.
Just for this morning, I am going to step
over the laundry and pick you up and take you to
the park to play.
Just for this morning, I will leave the
dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put
that puzzle of yours together.
Just for this afternoon, I will unplug
the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with
you in the backyard and blow bubbles.
Just for this afternoon, I will not yell
once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and
whine for the ice cream truck, and I will buy you one
if he comes by.
Just for this afternoon, I won’t worry
about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concern ed.
Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies, and I won’t stand over you trying to fix them.
Just for this afternoon, I will take us
to McDonald’s and buy us both a Happy Meal so you can
have both toys.
Just for this evening, I will hold you in
my arms and tell you a story about how you were
born and how much I love you.
Just for this evening, I will let you
splash in the tub and not get angry.
Just for this evening, I will let you
stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.
Just for this evening, I will snuggle
beside you for hours, and miss my favorite TV shows.
Just for this evening when I run my
finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be
grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given.
I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children’s
graves instead of their bedrooms. The mothers
and fathers who are in hospital rooms
watching their children suffer senselessly and screaming
inside that little body
And when I kiss you goodnight I will hold
you a little tighter, a little longer. It is then,
that I will thank God for you, and ask him for
nothing, except one more day…………..

HOW HARD IS LETTING GO???

misgodsbest — Fri, 23 Apr 2010 09:52:37 +0000

In your hands is a very precious creation so fragile, so valuable that if you keep on holding it, it either stays or falls apart. But you loved this creature so much that letting it go would be comparable to letting go of your life as well, so much that sometimes you wished it would always be there, so much that you tend to be selfish so as you could make it stay for as long as you want.

There comes a time in our lives we chance upon someone “so nice” and “almost perfect” and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attached to that person (sometimes even without realizing it!). This feeling soon becomes a part of our daily lives and eventually guzzles our thoughts and actions to the extent that we dogged it as one of those “too good to be true” things. Then in our desperate attempt to get closer, our efforts are still futile and we still feel sorry for ourselves.

One person once said, “Never let your heart run your life. As much as you can always be sensible and let your mind speak for it. Try to listen not merely on what your feelings are evoking but more importantly listen to reason as well. “Letting go of someone doesn’t necessarily mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow the person to find his own happiness without expecting him to come back.

Letting go is not just letting the other person free “in the real sense of it,” but it is also setting you free from all animosities, hostility and resentments that was long kept in your heart. You have to let go because the bitterness often diminishes the strength and weakens the little hope left, making our lives more miserable than ever.

If I lose you today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If I lose love that doesn’t mean I failed in love, probably it was not the will of the Lord.

The Splinter and the Beam

misgodsbest — Thu, 22 Apr 2010 09:29:54 +0000

A very good friend, a doctor, was talking to me about his father. He said, “In many ways, he was a very good man, but one thing in his character that I did not like was this: he was too hard and too harsh with my mother and he was hard and harsh with us, his children. I resented that deeply.”

But he grew up, became a doctor, and had children of his own. One was a beautiful little girl. When she was three years old, she did something bad. Of course, it was not very bad – how bad can a three year old be? But her mother, the doctor’s wife, wanted her to realize that it was wrong. So she said to the child: “I will tell this to your father when he comes home”.

Much later, the mother wanted the child for something, but could not find her. She searched the house, calling the little girl by name but the child did not appear. The mother searched the grounds and she could not find the child. At that point, the mother began to cry, fearing that the little girl had run away from home.

When the doctor came from work, she told him in tears that their daughter had disappeared. They call all the normal places to which she might have gone but she was not there. They also call their relatives and friends but no one had seen the child. Then they both went out of the house, going from one place to another, searching. It was late at night and they had not found her so they notified the police.
At midnight, the mother was sobbing close to hysteria. The doctor decided that it would probably be best for them to get some sleep, and continue search in the morning. They went to their room, and began to prepare for bed.
And the doctor heard a sound, underneath their bed. He knelt on the floor, and looked underneath the bed. There, in the farthest corner, was their little girl! He crept under the bed to get her. When he put his hands on her little body, the child was trembling with fear and sobbing. He brought her out and sat on the bed, holding her in his arms.
And the though struck him with terrible intensity, he was thinking: “My God! What kind of monster have I become and this little child is afraid of me?” Then he realized that he was doing exactly the same things to his wife and children as his father had done to his mother and to him. If anything, he was worst. He was imitating all the things in his father which he did not like.

After that, he changed. He was 44 years but he changed. He became gentle, patient, and compassionate both to his wife and children. That is the beautiful thing about being human. We are not made out of steel! We are flesh and blood, nerves, with a heart and mind. We can change at any period of our life, even if we are not young anymore, we can change!
Our Lord – who is God, and who created us knows this. He knows that often we notice the faults of others of which we ourselves are guilty. We see the splinter in the eye of our brother, when we have a beam in our own.
So our Lord said: “Do not try to remove the splinter from the eye of your brother until you have removed the beam from your own…then you will see, more clearly how to remove the tiny splinter from the eye of you brother”.
Our Lord also said: “Judge not that you may not be judge.” In practice, that means: when you see someone acting in a way that is not proper, when you see someone doing thing s that hurt the feelings of others, do not waste your time judging him, or gossiping about him. The best thing to do is: make a great resolution that you will never act that way. The best way to correct your brother is to do right yourself.

A ShockAttack Real Experience

misgodsbest — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 08:13:04 +0000

Scene: Nagdidiner sina Hydz, Kaye, at Joy ng biglang…

Tok! Tok! Tok!

Joy: C tita yan…

2mayo c Hydz para buksan ang pinto

Hydz: Gulatin natin…(naka-ngisi)

Pagka-bukas ng pinto…

Hyds: BULAGAAAAHHH!!! (with action)

Tao sa Labas: (Shocked)

De..li..very po ng tubig.

Hyds: (Nagtago sa likod ng pinto sa kahihiyan habang di mapigil ang tawa)

Joy at Kaye: (hagalpak sa kakatawa)

Kaye: (naiiyak pa sa sobrang tawa)

Delivery Boy: Buti nalang wala aqong sakit sa puso kundi baka inatake naqo…

Hyds: Paxenxa na tlga kuya…hehe^^”

Hanggang sa naka-alis si Kuya…d parin tumigil ang tatlo sa kakatawa.

Lesson: Huwag ng magbalak ng masama sa kapwa dahil baka ikaw ang mabiktima sa sarili mong kumunoy.

Eat-All-You-Can Places in Manila

misgodsbest — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 08:23:10 +0000

Just read it here: http://www.jozzua.com/2006/11/27/eat-all-you-can-places-in-manila/

It might be helpful to you especially to food lovers like us..(Innogen HRAD Department) hahaha..matatakaw^^”

1.Something fishy, (breakfast time) Eastwood Libis. 12am-10am
2.Kamay Kainan with bottomless Iced Tea, Market Market, P295/head.
3.Chinatown’s Best, Banawe QC, P400/head FULL MEAL! (Already ate here!)
4.Saisaki/DAD’s/Kamayan, P500/head
5.Dragon Prince, BF homes Pque. (Lunch Buffet) P180 per head.
6.Cabalen – all branches,? P275/head.
7.RCBC Plaza Food Center, Makati 95/head (Breakfast) & 65/head merienda.
8.Blue Bay, Quirino Grandstand, 350/Head.
9.Brazil brazil – Metrowalk & Powerplant Mall (meat all you can P650/head)
10.Dimsun ‘N Dumplings @ Shopwise (cubao) – Unlimited Siomai either P99 or P125 lang
11.Sweet Inspirations along Katipunan, eat-all-you-can Mongolian Buffett P300/head
12.Seafood Club(Red Crab) Greenbelt3 – dinner 275/head
13.Chubby China(Greenbelt) – dimsum(fried & steamed) breakfast at P88/head. with yang chow rice, crisp noodles at single serve iced tea. order all you can lunch – P295, merienda – P88, dimsum all you can w/pancit canton, noodles and congee
14.Red Crab (Greenbelt 3) – alimango(crab)-all-you-can
15.Circles, Shangri-la Makati, expensive but very large buffet!
16.Spiral, Westin Philippine Plaza
17.Cravings, salad all you can Katipunan infront of Ateneo, Katipunan
18.Siamese Grill, Pasta all you can, P85/head Bluewave Marquinton, Marikina
19.Tramway, Banawe, Chinese eat all you can, P160/head
20.Kamay Kainan, Kalayaan Avenue, P199/head
21.Red Kimono, The Fort, 499++/ head
22.Mandarin Palace, Ongpin, P150/head
23.Tokyo Tokyo, Rice all you can (all branches)
24.Yamcha Teahouse in Timog (Lunch/Dinner Buffet P349)
25.Aling Nene’s BBQ/Ihaw, Eat all you can (Fridays & Saturdays), Magallanes, P200+/head.
26.Alba’s Restaurant – Tomas Morato, Libis, Jupiter St., P550
27.Jestine’s Restaurant, Jupiter Street Makati, Breakfast all you can, from 12AM to 12PM (tapa, tocino, varies) P99.00
28.Emperor Villa – ongpin st., binondo – lunch P180-P200, dinner is seafood buffet at roastings (asado, lechon de leche) @ P350.

Are You Really A Christian???

misgodsbest — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 03:42:01 +0000

Several years ago, a preacher from out-of-state accepted a call to a church in Houston, Texas. Some weeks after he arrived, he had an
occasion to ride the bus from his home to the downtown area. When he sat down, he discovered that the driver had accidentally given him a quarter too much change. As he considered what to do, he thought, ‘You’d better give the quarter back. It would be wrong to keep it.’ Then he thought, ‘Oh, forget it, it’s only a quarter. Who
would worry about this little amount? Anyway, the bus company gets too much fare; they will never miss it. Accept it as a ‘gift from
God’ and keep quiet.’ When his stop came, he paused momentarily at the door, and then he handed the quarter to the driver and said, ‘Here, you gave me too much change.’ The driver, with a smile, replied, ‘Aren’t you the new preacher in town?’ ’Yes’ he replied. ’Well, I have been thinking a lot lately about going somewhere to worship. I just wanted to see what you would do if I gave you too
much change. I’ll see you at church on Sunday.’ When the preacher stepped off of the bus, he literally grabbed the nearest light pole, held on, and said, ‘Oh God, I almost sold your Son
for a quarter.’

Our lives are the only Bible some people will ever read. This is a really scary example of how much people watch us as Christians, and
will put us to the test! Always be on guard — and remember — You carry the name of Christ on your shoulders when you call yourself
’Christian.’

Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.
I’m glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder. So, I choose to forward it to you – my friend. God bless you; I hope you are having a
wonderful day!

If you don’t pass this on to anybody, nothing bad will happen; but, if you do, you will have ministered to someone.

The Will of God will never take you to where the Grace of God will not PROTECT you…

Stay FAITHFUL and Be GRATEFUL

Health Reminders

misgodsbest — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 03:25:46 +0000

TOP 5 CANCER CAUSING FOODS

1. Hot dogs

Because they are high in nitrates, the Cancer Prevention Coalition advises that children eat no more than 12 hot dogs a month. If you can’t live without hot dogs, buy those made without sodium nitrate.

2. Processed meats and bacon

Also high in the same sodium nitrates found in hot dogs, bacon, and other processed meats raise the risk of heart disease. The saturated fat in bacon also contributes to cancer.

3. Doughnuts

Doughnuts are cancer-causing double trouble. First, they are made with white flour, sugar, and hydrogenated oils, then fried at high temperatures. Doughnuts, says Adams , may be the worst food you can possibly eat to raise your risk of cancer.

4. French fries

Like doughnuts, French fries are made with hydrogenated oils and then fried at high temperatures. They also contain cancer- causing acryl amides which occur during the frying process. They should be called cancer fries, not French fries, said Adams ..

5. Chips, crackers, and cookies

All are usually made with white flour and sugar. Even the ones whose labels claim to be free of trans-fats generally contain small amounts of trans-fats.

BRAIN DAMAGING HABITS

1. No Breakfast
            People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level.
            This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.
2. Overeating
            It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.
3. Smoking
            It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.
4. High Sugar consumption
            Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.
5. Air Pollution
           The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.
6. Sleep Deprivation
          Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.

7. Head covered while sleeping
Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain

            damaging effects.
8. Working your brain during illness
           Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.
9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts
           Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.

10. Talking Rarely

Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain

MAIN CAUSES OF LIVER DAMAGE

1. Sleeping too late and waking up too late are main cause.

2. Not urinating in the morning.

3. Too much eating.

4. Skipping breakfast.

5. Consuming too much medication.

6. Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring, and artificial sweetener.

7. Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. As much as possible reduce cooking oil use when frying, which includes even the best cooking oils like olive oil. Do not consume fried foods when you are tired, except if the body is very fit.

8. Consuming raw (overly done) foods also add to the burden of liver.
Veggies should be eaten raw or cooked 3-5 parts. Fried veggies should be finished in one sitting, do not store.

We should prevent this without necessarily spending more. We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our bodies to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to “schedule.”

DO TAKE CARE OF OUR HEALTH…

REASONS FOR SLEEPING AND WAKING UP EARLY

misgodsbest — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 03:17:10 +0000

Evening at 9 – 11pm: Is the time for eliminating unnecessary/ toxic chemicals (detoxification) from the antibody system (lymph nodes). This time duration should be spent by relaxing or listening to music. If during this time a housewife is still in an un-relaxed state such as washing the dishes or monitoring children doing their homework, this will have a negative impact on health.

Evening at 11pm – 1am: Is the detoxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state.

Early morning 1 – 3am: Detoxification process in the gall: also ideally done in a deep sleep state. Early morning 3 – 5am: Detoxification in the lungs: Therefore there will sometimes be a severe cough for cough sufferers during this time. Since the detoxification process had reached the respiratory tract, there is no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process.

Morning 5 – 7am: Detoxification in the colon: you should empty your bowel. Morning 7 – 9am: Absorption of nutrients in the small intestine: you should be having breakfast at this time. Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30am, for those who are sick.

Breakfast before 7:30am is very beneficial to those wanting to stay fit. Those who always skip breakfast, they should change their habits, and it is still better to eat breakfast late until 9 – 10am rather than no meal at all. Habitual sleeping so late and waking up too late will disrupt the process of removing unnecessary chemicals.

Aside from that, midnight to 4:00 am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood.

Therefore, have a good sleep and don’t sleep late.

Our Father’s Love Letter

misgodsbest — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 02:46:25 +0000

The words you are about to experience are true.
They will change your life if you let them.
For they come from the very heart of God… He loves you…
and He is the Father you have been looking for all your life.
This is His love letter to you…

My Child

You may not know me, but I know everything about you
â€¦Psalm 139:1

I know when you sit down and when you rise up
â€¦Psalm 139:2

I am familiar with all your ways
â€¦Psalm 139:3

Even the very hairs on your head are numbered
â€¦Matthew 10:29-31

For you were made in my image
â€¦Genesis 1:27

In me you live and move and have your being
â€¦Acts 17:28

For you are my offspring
â€¦Acts 17:28

I knew you even before you were conceived
â€¦Jeremiah 1:4-5

I chose you when I planned creation
â€¦Ephesians 1:11-12

You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book
â€¦Psalm 139:15-16

I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live
â€¦Acts 17:26

You are fearfully and wonderfully made
â€¦Psalm 139:14

I knit you together in your mother’s womb
â€¦Psalm 139:13

And brought you forth on the day you were born
â€¦Psalm 71:6

I have been misrepresented by those who don’t know me
â€¦John 8:41-44

I am not distant and angry, but am the complete expression of love
â€¦1 John 4:16

And it is my desire to lavish my love on you
â€¦1 John 3:1

Simply because you are my child and I am your Father
â€¦1 John 3:1

I offer you more than your earthly father ever could
â€¦Matthew 7:11

For I am the perfect father
â€¦Matthew 5:48

Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand
â€¦James 1:17

For I am your provider and I meet all your needs
â€¦Matthew 6:31-33

My plan for your future has always been filled with hope
â€¦Jeremiah 29:11

Because I love you with an everlasting love
â€¦Jeremiah 31:3

My thoughts toward you are countless as the sand on the seashore
…Psalms 139:17-18

And I rejoice over you with singing
â€¦Zephaniah 3:17

I will never stop doing good to you
â€¦Jeremiah 32:40

For you are my treasured possession
â€¦Exodus 19:5

I desire to establish you with all my heart and all my soul
â€¦Jeremiah 32:41

And I want to show you great and marvelous things
â€¦Jeremiah 33:3

If you seek me with all your heart, you will find me
â€¦Deuteronomy 4:29

Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart
â€¦Psalm 37:4

For it is I who gave you those desires
â€¦Philippians 2:13

I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine
â€¦Ephesians 3:20

For I am your greatest encourager
â€¦2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles
â€¦2 Corinthians 1:3-4

When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you
â€¦Psalm 34:18

As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart
â€¦Isaiah 40:11

One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes
â€¦Revelation 21:3-4

And I’ll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth
â€¦Revelation 21:3-4

I am your Father, and I love you even as I love my son, Jesus
â€¦John 17:23

For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed
â€¦John 17:26

He is the exact representation of my being
â€¦Hebrews 1:3

He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you
â€¦Romans 8:31

And to tell you that I am not counting your sins
â€¦2 Corinthians 5:18-19

Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled
â€¦2 Corinthians 5:18-19

His death was the ultimate expression of my love for you
â€¦1 John 4:10

I gave up everything I loved that I might gain your love
â€¦Romans 8:31-32

If you receive the gift of my son Jesus, you receive me
â€¦1 John 2:23

And nothing will ever separate you from my love again
â€¦Romans 8:38-39

Come home and I’ll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen
â€¦Luke 15:7

I have always been Father, and will always be Father
â€¦Ephesians 3:14-15

My question isâ€¦Will you be my child?
â€¦John 1:12-13

I am waiting for you
â€¦Luke 15:11-32

Love, Your Dad… Almighty God